You should think about should you want to begin pointing down he has got alternatives and you will find effects for the alternatives he makes, however you need to be ready for just what these are..
Yes I’m sure. He constantly claims without me and our son that he couldn’t live. My main stress would not be which he did not select the things I desired from him, but more if he did not continue because exactly what then? I really like him a great deal I do not ever desire to be without him. I have therefore problems that are many insecurities myself which he does cope with well. That in certain nobody else would ever comprehend.
Okay therefore imagine what would happen if the worst occurred..How wouldn’t it feel? just exactly How can you cope?
i am certain you’ll find a significantly better man whom cared and loved for you personally quite quickly..
We extremely extremely doubt that. And I also would feel awful, broken probably. But I really couldn’t be that method, instead of the surface. We have a 3 month son that is old I do not have enough time for sorrow or really anything other then him.. We figured this might be area of the issue however it began before we’d him, and shortly improved soon after we did..
Is just a ‘turtle’ a mataphor on how you are feeling right now?