1. I’ve grown up with siblings and lived with girls in university. You don’t read about the sweet man whom flirted. You read about exactly exactly how she was having a day that is perfectly fine a man had the gall to communicate with her. “I’m here to sort out. Not to ever flirt! ” “I’m here for coffee, to not flirt! ” “I’m here to learn, not to ever flirt! ”
The entire thing seems completely wrong because I’ve been led to think girls hate being flirted with. Why would i wish to start this kind of connection?
2. Provided the above, the expectation that is following a man should make the move just seems…insulting? Like, I’m designed to flirt with girls (that they don’t wish) from the off opportunity they are into me personally. If i will be incorrect, it is not rejection I’m concerned about. I’ve gotten death threats.
I’m like I’m being forced to relax and play court jester of course they like my performance, great. When they don’t, I’m fed into the crocs. Continue reading I do believe the 2 biggest problems We have with making the move are the following: